I’ve been in Hollywood for almost 2 months, and as summer winds down I wanted to reflect a bit to update everyone back home on my ups & downs. To preface everything: Since I walked out of the door at LAX that first week of July; Los Angeles has been a breath of fresh air.
It was mostly due to the fact a humid New York had been, at the time, ironically hotter; but I was also able to breathe easier because I seamlessly stepped into the new life I was trying to build with the help of a one of my best friends. Since picking me up from the airport, my friend David; the guy who hired and invited me to live with him, has been nothing but welcoming and supportive. By bringing me into their network of neighbors and colleagues, Dave, along with his girlfriend (& my pal) Jen, have really gone the extra mile to make me feel at home while I sleep on an air mattress in their living room. We commute, hang, clean, shop, cook, eat and go out together. We’re a little family with a routine, and it’s been pretty cool to pick up like I never left off with the people I roomed with in college, in a our wild new 'spin-off' setting.
July was a kind of a touristy blur. I did all the things you’re supposed to do when you move to downtown Hollywood; Gawked at the Chinese theater, drove around Beverly Hills, went to the beach, partied on Sunset, and ate lots of tacos. I was getting along great with everyone at my new job, where I had the chance to stretch my creative legs again, and after a few weeks of figuring out the position, I really started to hit a stride. After work, I'd help Dave start to re-write a project he’s been kicking around for a few years. On Saturdays we grilled, partied and lounged by the buildings pool with anyone who would show (this place has a really cool ‘Melrose Place’ vibe). Sundays were for kickball with the #1 Dads, a rag-tag charity team comprised of friends and folks from work. It all came so easy.
August brought one visitor after another to Casa del David. First a set of cousins, then a birthday, then Jen’s sister, then another set of old friends. It was nice to have other people around to visit with, but continuing July’s party grew tiresome while I was still getting settled. The summer continued; I kept working and finished my business with the apartment back in New York City. I was getting used to the idea of living on the west coast long term. I was ready to start saving, and begin looking for affordable places to help get my girlfriend Nicole out here as soon as possible. Unfortunately on August 19th, a wrench got thrown in my plans that had been so well executed up to that point; I was laid off from work. That day was also my one year anniversary with Nicole.
A week prior, 2 out of 5 founders of the company walked away with roughly a third of the business. It happened suddenly, and on the next Friday more than half the office was sent home. As someone who had been there barely six weeks, I simply had no chance. I expected this town to chew me up and spit me out, but I didn’t think it would happen so soon. I would be lying if I said it hasn’t been tough since then.
We lost in the playoffs at kickball that Sunday.
On the bright side of things Dave had convinced me to get back on stage to do stand-up 3 weeks ago, and I feel more like myself than I have in a while. I’m not funny yet, but the rust is off the wheels and I have my voice coming under control, which is more than I’ve been able to say in a long time. In fact, I was able to get up for three minutes at the NerdMelt open-mic this past Monday, and I did five last night on Hollywood boulevard; both of which are a minor dreams come true that I will share with my grandchildren someday. That is awesome.
So, I want to find a way to keep that up as long as possible, even if I end up having to work at Target or something for a bit. To date I’ve applied for 166 jobs, but haven’t had much luck hearing back as of yet. Everyone left at the office said they’re looking out for me too, so my fingers are crossed. I’m feeling optimistic, but certainly wouldn’t mind if anyone who know’s anyone in LA who might need help to focus a camera, make a coffee run, or get a cat out of a tree to put in a good word for me.
I was weirdly relieved to be let go actually, because moving to LA had all been so easy. It was just working out too well, too smoothly; which is an odd occurrence in my life. Now that I have a little adversity and something to overcome, I feel more at home. Plus no good story just works out easy. Now I have something to talk about in the ‘tell-all’ book 30 Years down the line.
That’s Hollywood baby.